Sundays tend to be a mixed bag for pastors. The fulfillment of seeing people we know and love, connecting with guests who’ve come as they are, and the expectation that everything – even things that don’t go as we planned – will be used by God for good.

Hoping the community hears our communication the way it sounds in our heart and ministering to people as they respond to the message.

Messenger Inbox

Pastoral messages aren’t theoretical or merely rhetorical homilies. Good spiritual communication calls for a response. Practical applications. “How should we then live” kind of action. Examples set by pastor/leaders.

Sunday afternoon found me reflecting on responses from the morning’s message

And a note popped up in my Messenger inbox.

“I’m sure you’re hearing this a lot today but thank you for what you said in your message. I talk to my boys about stepping up and being compassionate in highly politicized subject matters. As their pastor I just wanted you to know that you echoed that to them today and they heard you. As your friend, I wanted to say that I am proud of you for courageously speaking out in such a thoughtful and insightful way. The world truly needs Jesus.”

Me Too

That morning’s subject matter addressed what actress and mom, Alyssa Milano started the previous Sunday. She tweeted out:

“If all the women who have been sexually harassed or assaulted wrote ‘me too’ as a status we might give people a sense of the magnitude of the problem.”

In less than twenty-four hours there were twelve million #MeToo posts on Facebook alone.

Talk about magnitude.

My first reaction was why women should have to go public with something so devastating to simply be heard and supported.

I wondered how long #MeToo would trend. Would awareness morph into action? What should I do?

Responding To Assault Or Abuse

Christians should be at the front of a tidal wave of response. And change. Especially male Christians.

Particularly pastors.

Specifically me.

A ministry friend advised that it is tremendously fearful for a woman to post something like #MeToo. She said this will be the first time they’ve had the nerve to say out loud, “Me too. I’ve been a victim. This is wrong. You are not alone.”

“Keep your words few.”


“Be compassionate.”

“Be kind.”

“Offer support.”

Wise advice.

In The Home

I know there are countless good and honest men out there who fully respect women and would never harm a woman in any way and they ingrain that value in their sons.

Good on you.

Meaningful change starts in the home.

Men, boys and fathers have a lot at stake in this matter. Its not just about championing women but standing strong in the integrity that they have and the legacy they will pass on to the next generation.

Be proactive in changing the tone of what is clearly a hyper-sexualized and demeaning problem.

Zero Tolerance

We can:

Create zero tolerance for sexist statements or jokes.

Create zero tolerance for magazines, movies, videos, or any publication or product that reduces women to objects.

Instead of leaving it to the next generation, modern politicians or “the other guy” where can you begin today to effect change for the better in the lives of women?

APPLICATION: Please re-post to your social media platforms. Leave a comment below of encouragement for those who suffered and a word of empowerment for those who don’t know where to start the change. Thank you.

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Bob Jones

Author Bob Jones

Pastor at North Pointe Community Church for 27 years. Happily married to Jocelyn for 38 years. We have two adult sons, Cory and his wife Lynsey and their son Vinnie; Jean Marc and his wife Angie and their three gorgeous daughters, Quinn, Lena and Annora. I love being a pastor and inspiring faith in Jesus through communicating, blogging, counseling and coaching. I enjoy running, reading, writing and ball hockey. Fan of the Esks and Pats. Follow me on Twitter @bobjones49ers

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