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AM I GOOD ENOUGH?

By February 20, 2012 6 Comments

Whitney HoustonThere was something about Whitney Houston that went beyond the obvious.

Whitney was beautiful and arguably the most incredible female voice in musical history. She was undeniably the most awarded female act of all time.

The kind words of those closest to her at her funeral could not dispel the sense that all their love, support and care were insufficient to save Whitney from herself.

Not even drugs or alcohol were enough to dull the pain of feeling she wasn’t good enough.

Am I Good Enough?

I’ve struggled with feeling inadequate. Not good enough. Insufficient.

In my lowest moments I’m convinced that “successful” people, like Whitney, never worry about being good enough.

So untrue.

I was caught off guard by her co-star, Kevin Costner’s reflections at her funeral. He said that for all of Houston’s beauty and success, “she was still yearning for approval from the public and somewhat insecure.

A superstar who still wondered, ‘Am I good enough? Am I pretty enough? Will they like me?”whitney-houston

Yes, Jesus Loves Me

Her first songs were sung about Jesus at New Hope Baptist in NJ.

Her last song was a line from “Jesus Loves Me” sung at a night club in LA. “Jesus loves me this I know, for the Bible tells me so.”

She died of a drug overdose a few hours after singing the song.

Temptation At The Top

Whitney went where Jesus had been. To the top; to the peak of the highest mountain with the world laying before her.

The Bible says, “…the Devil took him (Jesus) to the peak of a huge mountain. He gestured expansively, pointing out all the earth’s kingdoms, how glorious they all were. Then he said, “They’re yours—lock, stock, and barrel.” Matthew 4:8,9 (The Message)

Whitney heard similar words – “its all yours…you are the greatest.”

Jesus fended off temptation; Whitney succumbed.

Never Out Of Jesus’ Love

There is no way of knowing the depth of Whitney’s agony, but one thing is certain – her tortured soul was never out of Jesus’ love.

Tiffanie Dixon, Whitney’s hair dresser of seven years says the last thing she remembered her saying was, “I just want to love and be loved. I want to love like Jesus did. Unconditionally.”

Jesus offers a “come as you are” acceptance.

At the end, Jesus’ words to Whitney became, “Come home and rest.”

Kevin Costner said it best at her funeral.

Choking up and pausing as he ended his speech, Costner said, “Off you go Whitney, off you go. Escorted by an army of angels to your heavenly Father. When you sing before him, don’t you worry. You’ll be good enough.”

APPLICATION: Have you struggled with feeling “not good enough?” Please leave a comment below.


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  • Amanda. T.Kammer says:

    Of course I still do sometimes not just with god to I feel not enough even with other people and the people that love me.

  • bob jones says:

    Thanks for commenting Amanda. What has helped you the most in facing those feelings and being assured deep down that you are good enough?

  • Amanda. T.Kammer says:

    With feeling enough for God alpha helped it kinda just hit home that ok I I am enough (like a parent child love) with people being around the right people before I think i was surrounded by negative people now I’m only allow positive people around me they are more supportive and understanding and sometimes i still struggle with it

  • Patricia McNeil says:

    I like who I am but feel like if people knew the real me they wouldn’t like me. I don’t feel like people accept me and that they want me to change to be who they think I should be. When I hear or see the words “come as you are”, I think and feel that’s for everyone but me. No one else really knows the real me. Some might think they do. This makes me not trust people and spend a lot of time alone. I trust God and know that I am good enough for Him. That matters most to me.

  • bob jones says:

    A good verse, “…the love of Christ controls us” 1 Cor. 5:14 and a good book, “The Search For Significance” by Robert S. McGee. Billy Graham said this book is one that should be read by every Christian. It was useful to me.

  • Patricia McNeil says:

    Thank you so much Pastor Bob. I am going to get this book and read it.

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